Is there support for home funerals in Northfield?

By Griff Wigley, on July 31, 2009, 6:22 am

In last week’s NY Times: Home Burials Offer an Intimate Alternative. “In an economic downturn, the do-it-yourself ethos extends to families burying their own loved ones, sometimes in their backyards.” I had no idea. Are there Northfield area death midwives (home funeral guides)? Do our local funeral homes (Bierman Funeral Home; Benson and Langehough Funeral Home) provide support for family-directed funerals? Have any congregations provided support for home burials? (continued)

Some resources:

A great home funeral photo set on Flickr
Undertaken With Love: A Home Funeral Guide for Congregations and Communities
LA Times Dec. 2008: ‘Death midwife’ as funeral alternative. “With money tight, many families are holding funerals — even burials — at home. Specialists help out with the paperwork and other details.”
PBS POV documentary, 2004: A Family Undertaking.

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