Northfield’s teens, 16-20, flock to Synergy Dance Club events at Onyx/Olmeca in Burnsville. Should parents be freaked?

By Griff Wigley, on February 8, 2010, 12:07 am

A couple of parents of local teens have alerted me that Synergy Dance Club (Facebook group) events at the new Onyx/Olmeca night club in Burnsville are increasingly drawing Northfield’s teens for their special shows, ages 16-20. The next one is this Friday, a Valentine’s Day event.

As you can see from their Valentine’s Day poster, girls are encouraged to dress up in sleazewear (that links to my June 2008 blog post with 61 comments). Take a look at some of the photos posted to Synergy’s Facebook group. (Anyone with a Facebook account can view them.)

The dancing often includes freak dancing (simulated sex acts), which schools nationwide have been trying to crack down on. The videos posted to Synergy’s Facebook group show the dance.

Should parents be worried? Or is this a way for teens to safely release sexual urges on the dance floor instead of elsewhere?

Griff Wigley says:

April 1, 2010 at 7:58 am

A Northfield parent alerted me that girls (16-20) are being encouraged to dress up as Playboy Bunnies for tonight’s event:

TO HELP CELEBRATE PLAYBOY BUNNIES WE WILL BE OPENING UP THE STAGE TO ANYONE WHO WANTS TO GET INTO THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON AND DRESS UP AS PLAYBOY BUNNIES.

SO COME OUT CELEBRATE, WHATEVER YOU WANT, AND PARTY IT UP AT OUR FIRST EVER THURSDAY EVENT AT ONYX AND WHAT WILL LIKELY BE THE BIGGEST 16+ PARTY OF THE SPRING!

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Northfield’s teens, 16-20, flock to Synergy Dance Club events at Onyx/Olmeca in Burnsville. Should parents be freaked?

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